Spending twenty-five years of your life making attempts to be godly and Christian-like was, for me, a complete waste of time. Psychology and neuroscience taught me more about behavior than any other source. Plus, I have read lots of books that deal with psychology, neuroscience, biology, and genetics, which I still do research on. The cult I was in did more damage than good. There is still a lot of wrong thinking in my head. There are plenty of, if not all, negative experiences that I am still dealing with. I have been in therapy for a long time. Religion promotes lots of lies that are easy to prove. There is no destiny or meant to be. There is no luck, just everyday stupidity. Life is about making the most informed decisions you can. Learn to think for yourself. That is one thing education is good for